The New Rules for Love, Sex, and Dating

Are you the person the person you’re looking for is looking for?

Saying “I do” doesn’t make a person capable, only accountable. When you’re accountable for something you’re not capable of, you will eventually be miserable

simple believe anything, but the prudent give thought to their steps.

the problem is, a guy like that is not looking for a girl like you.” As painful as it is to read and consider, the same may be true for you. It’s too early.
So break the wrist and walk away.

into a relationship, are you okay with him or her sneaking bad habits in as well? Or would you prefer to know up-front what you’re dealing with?

A week or two after you make this commitment, you’ll most likely meet the person you’ve been looking for. You’ll be tempted to do with this commitment what you’ve done with previous commitments. Break it. But don’t. You’re not ready. You’re not the person the person you’re looking for is looking for. You need time. Remember what Denise’s mother told her? “Sweetheart,

Let me ask you this. If it’s okay for you to sneak your bad financial habits in

If you have to use your body to get him, you’ll have to use your body to keep him. And as cute as you are today . . .

Do you know what determines a fisherman’s choice of bait? The kind of fish he wants to catch. Ladies, if you fish with your bodies, you’re going to catch body snatchers every single time. All men are not the same. If you think they are, it’s because the men you’ve dated are all the same. But the common denominator in your last three relationships was . . . you.

Romance is fueled by exclusivity.