Connection With A Useful Chore
Pick a chore that you don’t like but that you know is helpful in the long ran. It could be ironingclothes, washing dishes, vacuuming, cleaning out the car, cooking a healthy meal, putting thegarbage out, bathing the kids, polishing your shoes, tidying the garage—any task that you’d just assoon avoid doing. Then each time you do it, practise connection. Have no expectations; just noticewhat happens. For example, if you’re ironing clothes, notice the colour and shape of the clothing.Notice the patterns made by the creases and shadows. Notice how the patterns change as the creasesdisappear. Notice the hiss of the steam, the creak of the ironing board, the faint whispery sound ofthe iron moving over the material. Notice the grip of your hand on the iron and the movement ofyour arm and your shoulder.
If boredom or frustration arises, make room for it and refocus on what you’re doing. When thoughtsarise, let them be and go back to focusing on what you’re doing. The moment you realise that yourattention has wandered (and it will, repeatedly), gently thank your mind, briefly note whatdistracted you and bring your attention back to what you’re doing.