But change never just happens. It’s something we have to work at
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Especially when we feel like a large percentage of our days are spent in full-blown survival mode, where we find ourselves wild-eyed and red-faced at the end of a birthday party, shouting, “If there’s one more argument over that bow and arrow, nobody’s getting any presents!”
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moments you are just trying to survive are actually opportunities to help your child thrive.
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you need to understand some basics about the young brain that you are helping to grow and develop.
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How our kids make sense of their young lives is not only about what happens to them but also about how their parents, teachers, and other caregivers respond.
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left side of the brain that helps you think logically and organize thoughts into sentences, and a right side that helps you experience emotions and read nonverbal cues. You also have a “reptile brain” that allows you to act instinctually and make split-second survival decisions, and a “mammal brain” that leads you toward connection and relationships.
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That’s what integration does: it coordinates and balances the separate regions of the brain that it links together.
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a person’s brain isn’t considered fully developed until she reaches her mid-twenties.
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Likewise, when she is in a state of integration, she demonstrates the qualities we associate with someone who is mentally and emotionally healthy: she is flexible, adaptive, stable, and able to understand herself and the world around her.
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when she is in a state of integration, she demonstrates the qualities we associate with someone who is mentally and emotionally healthy: she is flexible, adaptive, stable, and able to understand herself and the world around her.