Tom Brown

‘If you love yourself, you love everybody else as you do yourself. As long as you love another person less than yourself, you will not succeed in loving yourself.

all others equally.’

loves all others equally

n egoist is a lonely man incapable of loving. And even if someone loves him, the egoist can't enjoy this gift of destiny; he can get only psychologically mock at the sick person who was unlucky to "fall for a tool." Everyone in close contact with the egotist is unhappy, and the most miserable man here is just him. And the saddest thing is that the sufferer can't realize his problem.

A person who loves himself, forgives mistakes, imperfections of his personality which he is unable to correct, to himself

So, the first thing to do of love for yourself is to become educated in a way as if you were your child. If you doubt what to do, ask yourself, “what would I advise my son (daughter) in such a situation?” And you’ll find the right answer.

Maybe this is your story? Perhaps the thing you think of as demerit differs from the rest, and don't make you worse – quite the contrary? There are your hands, your legs, and your breasts; everything belongs to you and is considered unique. You should love them only for this fact already.

Don’t follow the accepted pretended standards

Let’s recall a girl who was dolefully looking into the mirror. She is sad for having no resemblance to Rihanna or Jennifer Lopez and completely forgets that she cooks deliciously and sews even better. If she had not thought about the strained demerits, but better had remembered her strong sides, she would have managed to start the restaurant business or to become a famous couturier.

Why train a cat to draw if it is perfect for catching mice? Following standards and guidelines, we look as ridiculous as this cat with a brush in its paws but were unwilling to admit it.

Everyone has talent, vocation, and mission, and everyone has a niche where he'll be able to come into his own.